by Dr. Roger McIntire
$14.95
Raising Good Kids in Tough Times describes 7 crucial habits to help parents raise good kids, maintain a loving relationship, and counter the dangerous examples, attitudes and temptations children face in today's multimedia world. Practical guidelines are illustrated with over 200 examples and more than 60 parent-child dialogues. This book covers the basics from toilet training, sleeping habits, and listening skills to sibling rivalry, sex, drugs, and social skills. It also addresses single-parent problems and strategies and parent activism in the school and community.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Dr. Roger McIntire, father of three, taught child psychology and principles of family therapy at the University of Maryland for 32 years. Now Professor Emeritus, he is a popular speaker and columnist and a frequent guest on radio and TV talk shows.
CONTENTS
Preface
HABIT 2: TEACH WELL
HABIT 3: SHOW THEM YOU LIKE THEM-HELP THEM LIKE THEMSELVES
HABIT 4: SEND THE RIGHT MESSAGES ABOUT VALUES AND CHARACTER "
HABIT 5: MIND YOUR MODEL
HABIT 6: Use Caution With Punishment HABIT 7: KEEP YOUR ADULT PERSPECTIVE
Index
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"Outstanding"
"An unpretentious book structured on seven good parental habits, it is readable, well-organized and full of sensible advice for parents."
HABIT 1: LISTEN WELL
The Most Important Question in Parenting: "Mom (Dad), Can We Talk?"
First Rules for Little Talks
Five Cautions for Parents in Conversation
Listening During the Games Instead of Trying to Win
EXERCISE: Practice the First Rules and Five Cautions of Conversation
Stage One: Careful Rules for Toddlers: "Teaching" The Basic Three
Stage Two: The Real Challenges Begin! Attention-Getting Behaviors
Stage Three: The School-age-Helping a Child Become a Student
Strategies for Tests
The Computer Age: The Dangers of a "Computer Crutch"
Problem Students
EXERCISE: Observe What's Happening - Start a Behavior Page
"I Love You" Is Not Much Without "I Like You"
Ingredients of a Great Parent-Child Relationship
While Pursuing Perfection, What Happens to "Liking?"
"I Always Felt I Was Not Quite Good Enough"
Undesirable Habits by Default
Trophy Children
EXERCISE: Fill In These Important Lists of Priorities
Values Learned Through the Family Connections
When Values Come Up: How to Manage Blames and Credits
Routines That Lead to Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem
Character Development Needs Time of Its Own
The S.A.D. Behaviors: Sex, Alcohol, and Drugs
Your Child and the Movies
What Will Make You Happy?
Character, Community, and Religion
"Character? The Subject Never Came Up!
Give a Nice Day
How Much Explanation is Required for Children?
Necessary Planning about Strategies
You Can't Make a Garden Just By Pulling Weeds!
Uncle Harry's Hard Line Won't Help Tough Times
The Reasons and the Results
Correcting the Course
Punishment Alternatives: Isn't Adulthood Great?!
The Work of Being a Parent
EXERCISE: A Planning Session Agenda
Your "Almost Grown-Ups" Need Your Adult Perspective
"Quit Treating Me Like a Child!" 8 Years Old and Going on 25!
Bring In the Reinforcements
"Hey! Don't Talk to Your Mother Like That!" How Friends Can Help
Parent Abuse: How Friends Can Hinder
Parent Teams Can Help You Keep Up With the Changes
The Rest of Their Childhood and Your Parenthood Begins Now
EXERCISE: Parent Teams: The Ground Rules for Making Them Work
Extra Behavior Charts